Mom in law?

my mother in law interferes in absolutely everything and wants everything her way. i m pregnant and want to be with my husband and if it goes my way get delivery happen where my husband is since according to her the delivery cannot happen at my mother's place. before this also whenever she never allowed me to take up any job, i hve no carreer, hve an unplanned baby in my womb. a husband who does 'nt get it dat it is more important for me to be mentally happy thn having a care giver like mom in law who does'nt even let me breathe. i don't want to hate her b'se she has left no stone unturned in giving me pre natal and be in the good books of my husband. if i say something my husband thinks i m misbehaving with her as she is too smart to brain wash.