Iv' e been playing hard to get with the man I love because he said he did not like agressive women. should I?

We met in 1999, he's 7 years younger than me, I'm 63 but he looks 29. He has eight pack abbs and can climb walls like Bruce Lee. I want him badly. He told me he is coming to my apt in the w Village tomorrow night if I don't call and tell him not to. Should I see how much confidence he has. Time is runing out. If I don't get him now, I may lose him forever?